By. Ran
Plenty of women under-appreciated in relationships. They feel like they do not receive in return the same amount of effort they put in. they feel like they are not loved enough like they are not valued enough. The love they are given in return is not good enough. Their compassion, love, and affection are met with disinterest and indifference. Simply, they feel like they are not loved the way they deserve to be.
Nobody should feel this way. No one deserves to be made feel like their relationship is just another disappointment among many. No, she should not have to feel this way.
If you do not treat her the way she deserves to be treated, then you do not deserve her.
She deserves to be loved properly. She deserves to be appreciated, loved and valued. You should be willing to do what she is ready to do for you. You should be buying her flowers. You should be cooking her a fancy dinner. You should be leaving little notes on the kitchen counter. You should be surprising her by turning up at her lunch hour. You do not have to spend millions on jewelry and expensive stuff. All you have to do is take her out on a date once in a while, to impress her with little things. Show her that you mean it when you say you love her. Love is all about showing that you appreciate her that you think about her.
Love is not easy. It is no bed of rose petals. You are bound to have disagreements and arguments. No, love is not about a fairy tale love story with smiles and red roses. It is about being there no matter what happens. It is about being there through thick and thin, through the good and the bad. It is about mutual support. It is about putting your partner first and being considerate about their feelings. It is about being selfless.
If you don’t love her the way she deserves to be loved if you do not do for her what she would do for you without thinking twice, if you are not there for her when it gets tough, then you do not deserve her. If you can’t love her the way she is meant to be loved, then you should let her go. The truth is that there are many people out there who will die for an opportunity to love her the way she deserves to be loved.
Loving someone is about accepting them for who they are. It is about showing them that you appreciate them and everything they do. It is about patience and practice. Loving them is a choice you make every day. It is an effort to understand her, to spend time and energy on her.
If you do not love her this way, and if you are not willing to let her go, then know that everyone has a limit. Know that everyone has a breaking point. One day you will wake up and realize that it is too late. That day you will see that she has left.
