You will surely meet different kinds of people once you set your foot out of your home. Depending on your qualities and characteristics, the way you react and behave with all these people can be different. However, if you meet empaths or if you are an empath, you would know that it is not easy for others to lie to empaths because empaths are like mind detectives who can read other people’s thoughts. They are extremely sensitive to the emotions of people around them and therefore, they immediately develop a deep level of interpersonal intelligence.
According to Adioma interpersonal intelligence is “the ability to understand and interact effectively with others. It involves effective verbal and nonverbal communication, the ability to note distinctions among others, sensitivity to the moods and temperaments of others, and the ability to entertain multiple perspectives”.
So, no matter how much you need to conceal your thought, it will not be a possibility when you are around with an empath. So, We thought of sharing some qualities of an empath which would help you to understand why you should not lie around them.
#1. They know when you are being insincere.
You would know by experience that when you truly detest someone, are jealous of their happiness, and when you simply do not like to be with a certain person, it will be truly hard for you to hide your real emotions. Perhaps, the person from whom you need to hide this truth, will not recognize your discomfort, but an empath can feel it in an instance. You may fool anyone else but not an empath because it is not possible at all.
#2. They know when you are not ‘okay’.
An empath can read all your emotions as they are presented in a mirror and therefore, no matter how many times you say that you are okay, the empath will not believe it. Empaths can easily note your discomfort, your worries, and your sufferings and what you should do with an empath is not hide your feelings but to be transparent and open up to them.
#3. They hear everything.
They know the meaning of all that you say as well as what you don’t say. Your deep sighs, voice rises, and slight hesitations help them to have a profound understanding of yourself and they easily understand what is going on by observing you.
#4. They know when you aren’t being authentic.
We all have our fears and regrets. Sometimes, we try to hide our true identity and fake being someone that we are not, to meet the standards of society. But, when you are around an empath, you need not do this as empaths can easily identify your true self and see the hidden beauty in it. They appreciate you for who you are and therefore, there is no use of hiding yourself when there is an empath around you.
#5. They recognize negative people instantly.
Negative people always try to create dramas and inflict their passivity everywhere they go. Empaths can easily spot these people and they try to create boundaries and distance themselves from that person as they do not want to be a part of their negativity.
#6. They see it in your eyes.
Empaths can see everything right in your eyes and therefore, there is no use of hiding the truth from them. They easily read your sufferings, happenings, worries, and doubts and therefore, try to be true to them. There is no reason why you should even try to hide your true self from them as they are one of the most compassionate and sensitive people ever!