By. Ran

Looks aren’t everything and real love has nothing to do with looks.

Ladies, there is nothing wrong with looking good. In fact, we are all for looking pretty and good looks. But if you think all it takes to win a man’s heart is good looks, that is where you go wrong.

Most men are interested in you as a whole, not just how you look. Your personality plays a big role in their decision to settle. There are so many things that will turn a man off and we have listed out some of them.

Even if he finds you highly attractive, these 18 things will instantly turn him off.

#1. Constantly talking about yourself and/or gossiping about others.

#2. Talking only about the bad things that have happened to you, your downfalls and the negative aspects of your life.

#3. Looking at other women with jealousy and considering them as competition.

#4. Basing your happiness on material things.

#5. Not giving him the liberty to live his life, never allowing him to see his guy friends without you.

#6. Making fun of him and his interests.

#7. Being childish when you don’t get your way.

#8. Not having goals and not doing things that will make your life better.

#9. Not making an effort to get to know his family.

#10. Basing you worth on his validations, not realizing your worth.

#11. Not being able to handle yourself when you have had a drink.

#12. Talking him down in front of his friends and family.

#13. Telling that you are fine even when you are not.

#14. Fighting with him over every little thing.

#15. Relying on him and others to make you happy.

#16. Not being able to maintain a conversation with him about anything interesting or important.

#17. Relying on social media for fame and happiness.

#18. Being overly friendly with other men and denying public display of affection.