Perhaps your first love can be the right person for your life. You might not have loved anyone else in the same intensity and passion. The energy and the vibrancy you felt when you were with him those days can be an illusion now. You might be wondering how a person can be so happy and so sad at the same time.
Finding the destined person for life is the most beautiful thing that can ever happen to anyone. Those first days that you had your first kiss and your first hug will always last in your memory forever and those incidents will forever stay in your life. But for most of us that right person will not come in the right time and that is the reason for all sufferings and pains.
Many of you will believe the idea that the right person will not come in the wrong time and even if that happens in a wrong time, both of you will be able to turn the wrongs to the right and will be able to have a good time together.
But, you must keep in mind that your life is not a movie and everything will not happen in the exact way that you want things to be. Life is much more complicated than a mere drama and all our relationships are different from each other because of this complexity. Sometimes, even when you meet your soulmate, you will see that the things between you two will not happen in the exact way that you want them to be if you met him at the wrong time or if you were not the right person that you want to be. If you met him at such a time, then of course your relationship will be doomed.
Relationships fail not because your partner turn out to be different from the person that you thought him to be, but if you are not the person that you are meant to be then also relationships can be a failure. It is something that actually happens vice versa. Even if your partner was at a phase in his life where he cannot commit for the affair in the way he wants, then also you will end up in a separation.
People would always say different reasons as the cause for not committing to the relationship. Some would say they have to focus on the career first and some would say they have to think about their family first and you can even hear things like they need to do many more adventures in life before settling down.
But the underlying truth in all these situations is that neither you nor your partner is ready to commit wholeheartedly to the relationship and neither of you are prepared to love other person in the way that they wanted to be loved. When you meet the right person at a time where you are not prepared to love him in the way he wants, the problem is that you will not be able to give compromises or devote yourself fully to him and both of you will be dissatisfied about the affair you are having at the end of the day.
The purest and the deepest form of love is where both of you are ready to dive in the mad rapture of love and where you both feel a burning sensation inside your heart. You should settle only for that kind of love where you feel passionate, intoxicated and full satisfied and that type of love only will make you feel content.
If you feel that you are with the right person yet you are not able to love him in the way he likes, then the best thing that you can do is letting him go. It will not be an easy thing for you but if you truly love someone and if you wish happiness for him all the time, then you will be able to do this sacrifice.
You will walk away but remember that if you two are meant to be together, then no matter how long it takes or what happens in the meantime, he will eventually come back to you. He will find the path to be with you once again and remember that some people are blessed to find their right partner at the right time where as some would meet him after several ups and downs in life.
After all love is the force that lighten up your soul and it is worth to fight for it.