When you ask me devastating nothing more painful myself from family members. Family bonds are the strongest of bonds in our life. If we cut them it is a scar us deeply. Your family always look after you. We need such a person who does not hurt you. Anyway, you must face sometimes to the cold truth of other people. Then you will be able to come to a good position.
You must think of yourself. You must not harm to your physical, mental and emotional. You must try to tolerate all the problems. Then you can keep your family bond eternal.
Now I am going to say what are five signs of toxic people.
1. They feed off drama
Sometimes you decide your family members advice or share with them. So you can expose your fears vulnerabilities entirely. Then you will be able to know they betrayed you because your family members know your secret.
2. They judge you
When it is constructive criticism can be good. So constant degrading unjustified. Criticism really affects a person’s self-confidence. You must remove yourself from their presence.
3. They need your help from you what they need
when they want something from you they are always with you. They will distance from you again when they need support and love.
4. Family members quickly jump between a positive and negative reinforcement
They will insult you and yell one moment. When you ignore them they can’t stand. They will do everything their power to regain lost control on you. These kinds of dishonest persons live a short period.
5. They Gaslight you
If your own members claims without stopping they never said or something when you are among them. That’s not true. It is a manipulation technique with a purpose of sowing seeds. It shows their powerless and questions with their own perception.
If you can understand the above details, you can understand how dangerous these things for your mental health. If you associate bad people you lost your sanity and your well being. The best option is to remove them out entirely from your life. If they are your parents it is not easy. Then you can’t live happily and freely. So you must try to get a good decision. You must remove a toxic family. Then your decision is right. Anyway you must protect your emotions and sacrifices yourself. It is a normal part of the process. Finally don’t always come from family members you can get support from your friends and others. Then you can lead the better life.